Saturday was my family reunion and we managed to have almost all of the kids there. Sam had to work but Lisa was able to attend. So, all the kids and the two grandsons arrived to get reacquainted with distant cousins. I hope over time my kids will see the importance of staying connected to distant family. Right now they rely on immediate family but there is much wisdom and joy that can be gained from branching out.

Xander and Colin

Jedidiah

Over the years the number in attendance has dwindled due to distance. I have not seen my cousin Beth in ages and it was nice to see her family for the first time. Though, I do feel a bit old seeing little ones I remember now have children of their own.

I get a bit melancholy after these events for three reasons: I feel guilty for being so disconnected from extended family and these are the people who remember my parents. Every time I run into my cousin Carol, I remember all the promises to come and see her only to have not followed through. It makes me sad to see how busyness in life has interfered with relationships.

My parents have made such a significant impact on this earth and over time fewer people remember them. I am reminded on occasion just how unique their lives were and how they lived, I just wish others could be inspired by their sacrifice. There are days I miss my mom and when I am around extended family members it doesn't feel so lonely.
Our family and friends are the foundations in this life that keep us real. Often we take for granted they will always be around, but they won't. After the loss of my cousin, Bob, last year, I was reminded that time is precious when spent with those you love. 


My cousins, Rita and Darwin, are amazing, They are both late into their lives and still ride bikes around 20 miles a week. Good golly, after a mile I would be aching. I have got to start moving more. 




This was a good weekend of catching up, laughing and remembering loved ones, and of course, lots of food.